259 points louiereederson 4 hours ago 259 comments

heywintermute 4 hours ago | parent

He has to be finished as CEO even despite all the keyman risk right?

ro_bit 4 hours ago | parent

What difference is there between this and other tech CEOs who have had relationships with their staff? Musk and Gates come to mind

u1hcw9nx 4 hours ago | parent

He is very hands on. He has more direct reports than other other tech CEOs. I think close to 40. Someone else stepping up or stepping in has things to do.

In addition Nvidia is incredibly tech-heavy company. You need another EE with experience with AI chip design and business. Just having good experienced businessman looking at simplified powerpoints before making decisions of technical issues is probably not enough.

4ggr0 4 hours ago | parent

> He is very hands on

certainly sounds like that's the case, yup

Tadpole9181 22 minutes ago | parent

Without discussing the morality of his actions and what he should do as a person, I'm fairly convinced this is either a Chinese intelligence operation to destroy one of the last bastions of US dominance or a CIA operation to install a puppet in a powerful company who is not currently entirely subservient to the will of the US government.

And I'm pretty sure Jenson resigning without a suitable, almost identical successor will kill NVIDIA, the way Intel and AMD and IBM became mere husks of what they were, with no possible road to another western replacement in sight.

fidotron 4 hours ago | parent

Brin was absolutely next level.

octoberfranklin 4 hours ago | parent

Musk isnt married.

Musk is also very "out" about it. Kinda like how it's okay to be gay in the CIA, as long as you're out. Being in the closet gets you fired because it makes you blackmailable.

BigTTYGothGF 4 hours ago | parent

Cheating on your girlfriend who's also the mother of a couple of your kids is almost as bad as cheating on your wife.

collingreen 3 hours ago | parent

Is it worse or does it dilute the bad if there are a ton of baby mammas not just a "girlfriend who is also the mother of a couple of children"? I don't like the guy but it kind of feels like it somehow isn't as bad when it's just open, repeat behavior and nobody thinks he is even trying to be exclusively "with" these women. I have no idea what their shared understanding is but it might not be as bad as your framing makes it sound if that is openly known between them.

Not a lifestyle I could ever be proud of living personally but ymmv and elon seems to be enjoying himself.

serf 1 hour ago | parent

significantly less odds that she's going to halve your fortune on the way out if you're not married, so it would tilt investors/investments way less.

morally I don't really disagree with you, but practically I do.

kevin_thibedeau 1 hour ago | parent

It's not like they don't know the deal up front. They certainly aren't reluctant to be the next in line.

louiereederson 4 hours ago | parent

It's also very common for executives to get fired for affairs with direct reports. Kind of a cultural issue.

dfabulich 2 hours ago | parent

If by "this" you mean the affair with Powell, probably not much difference between Jensen Huang's affair with Powell and affairs that Gates, Bezos, and Brin have reportedly had.

But the extramarital affair with Alice Huang is quite different. NYTimes reports that Alice Huang is a Chinese spy, with whom Jensen Huang may have conspired to break the law, selling advanced NVIDIA chips to China. That affair puts the whole company at extreme legal risk. Gates, Bezos, and Brin have nothing like this on their records that I'm aware of.

As I write this, the top post on HN speculates that this is "the tip of the iceberg," indicating that there at least may be more affairs yet to be uncovered, and, plausibly, Jensen Huang may have committed even more enormous mistakes with serious consequences for NVIDIA.

randyrand 30 minutes ago | parent

Are you really using other HN comments as some form of credibility?

chasil 1 hour ago | parent

I remember Mark Hurd, who was hired by Oracle after HP ran him out.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Hurd

Rest in peace.

mac-attack 38 minutes ago | parent

jm4 4 hours ago | parent

I would think so. We can probably expect more to keep trickling out until he has no other choice but to resign. The spy thing was already bad enough. Now we find out he's hooking up with one of his direct reports? Seems like he runs a toxic workplace.

rvz 4 hours ago | parent

What a massive scandal. It is over.

minimaxir 4 hours ago | parent

At this point there's a good chance there are much more than just two affairs.

wepple 4 hours ago | parent

If you spot two ants in your kitchen, the average number of ants is probably higher than two

wewewedxfgdf 4 hours ago | parent

If there are ants in your kitchen they might be coming in due to rain outside.

You can leave sugar water in strategic places and then follow the ant trail to track where they are coming in.

Probably there will be an entire trail of ants in the morning - not just two. You can then track the place where they are coming in and block up the entrance point.

ImPostingOnHN 1 hour ago | parent

Once the entrance point is blocked, you have the ants trapped, and can begin reeducating them to fight their own kind. Then, after months of work, you unblock the entrances and let them all duke it out, thus solving the problem once and for all.

wewewedxfgdf 1 hour ago | parent

Perfectly valid, but probably more work than I am willing to go to.

finger 1 hour ago | parent

If it rains outside remember to take in your laundry, otherwise it will get wet.

disiplus 4 hours ago | parent

i commented somewhere, it will hardly be the only one. I never knew somebody that cheated just once.

debrisontrack 4 hours ago | parent

The jacket, it's all because of that shiny leather jacket...

xrd 4 hours ago | parent

He's trying to be a Japanese businessman from the 1980s.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/S%C5%8Dsuke_Uno#Economics

  Uno was highly criticized in public not for having a Geisha mistress, as it was a traditional leisure practice expected of politicians and wealthy men but instead due to relating his poor financial habits in the Japanese Diet as compared and paralleled to the ungenerosity towards his former Geisha mistress.

tantalor 4 hours ago | parent

What an awful sentence. Just terribly written.

heromal 53 minutes ago | parent

I really can't understand what it's trying to convey...

mertbio 4 hours ago | parent

Not surprising at all. Many tech CEOs are like this; Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Sergey Brin, Eric Schmidt and so on. People don’t stop idolizing these people, they don’t even think that this is a problem.

nerdstomper 4 hours ago | parent

> People don’t stop idolizing these people, they don’t even think that this is a problem.

They'd go as far as to call it a virtue. Silicon Valley is the greatest domestic enemy this country has ever seen. They've built entire machines to protect, reward, and normalize antisocial activity.

lol, I called it perfectly even.

Hikikomori 4 hours ago | parent

Not much different from other industries, other than scale and reach. Took many decades to regulate out killing workers and customers for profit, some are still barely regulated.

ahtihn 4 hours ago | parent

What's the point of being a billionaire if you can't sleep with whoever you want?

What even is the problem with that really?

vitaflo 4 hours ago | parent

Well one of them was a Chinese spy for starters. He's a compromised individual.

disiplus 4 hours ago | parent

pretending to be a family man while doing it.

s1artibartfast 2 hours ago | parent

Did he make a promise to you about that?

subarctic 2 hours ago | parent

I mean you can want to have a family and also get something on the side. It's basically fulfilling your biological imperative as a man.

quicklywilliam 4 hours ago | parent

This is a great question, just not in the way you meant it

tiznow 2 hours ago | parent

The being compromised part and bringing your decision making into question, if you're asking

mullingitover 1 hour ago | parent

“Billionaire” is largely a responsibility the market gives you: you have to command billions in capital. It’s actually a job a the end of the day.

We should have high standards for who is allowed to have this job. Huang should be replaced as easily and quickly as any mid-level executive who costs his company 340 billion in market cap.

CodeArtisan 4 hours ago | parent

BeetleB 53 minutes ago | parent

The difference is that Intel had a policy against it. Brian was having a relationship at the time they made the policy and it took months for him to wind it down

They used it against him 7 years later. He wasn't ousted because of his relationship. It's just the tool they used.

Also he wasn't CEO at the time of his relationship.

It also wasn't an affair. He was single at the time.

pokstad 3 hours ago | parent

It’s an odd phenomenon alright. South Park covered it in the episode “Sexual Healing” where famous rich men kept cheating on their wives. We may never get to the bottom of it.

p00ki3 3 hours ago | parent

Marriage/long term coupling is not "natural" but normal in society

With the decline in religious attendance has come a decline in marriage; from 70%+ to 50%ish over the last couple generations

But divorce rate has declined so those that do marry seem to really want it; in the before times though it was how women survived

Coupling fits with biological imperative to have partners but longterm/for life is obviously not necessary since divorce is common too, partners die, etc

That and recent research shows long term married couples are 50% more likely to develop dementia; an imbalance in effort develops where one becomes codependent and forgets how to live and the partner in charge loses grip of themselves and taking care of their partner consumes them.

debo_ 42 minutes ago | parent

Being married reduces dementia risk. e.g. [0]

Being primary caregiver to a spouse who has dementia does substantially increase the caregiver's risk of cognitive decline due to caregiver burnout. [1]

I'm not sure if this is what you were trying to express.

[0] https://jnnp.bmj.com/content/89/3/231

[1] https://www.ovid.com/jnls/neurotodayonline/fulltext/10.1097/...

p00ki3 37 minutes ago | parent

Dude I got my banjo too...

18 year study found unmarried more likely to not have dementia:

https://alz-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/alz...

debo_ 22 minutes ago | parent

If you read that paper, they posit that a likely "cause" is that unmarried people tend to have cognitive impairments diagnosed later relative to when someone (i.e. a spouse) is living with them.

p00ki3 17 minutes ago | parent

But unmarried are less likely to have Alzheimer's or Lewy Body Dementia; specifically like I wrote initially

So either way, like how if ya live long enough some kind of cancer would get ya, so will mental illness

No beating physics

debo_ 9 minutes ago | parent

Not less likely to _have_. Less likely to be _diagnosed_. It is unsurprisingly difficult to be diagnosed with progressive cognitive decline in most places regardless of source even if you have been referred once for MCI.

I think the easier way of looking at it is this: there is a Lancet commission that produces robust characterizations of the modifiable risk factors that lead to dementia. If you're in a marriage that promotes reducing those risk factors, you'll likely have a lower risk of dementia. Isolating one variate like this raises interesting questions, but isn't a "smoking gun'-- especially in this case since the authors themselves indicate this is a surprising result given other studies.

https://www.thelancet.com/infographics-do/dementia-risk

PcChip 1 hour ago | parent

it's also possible the wife knew and was okay with it

my wife and I date other people, you'd be surprised how big the ENM/Poly community is when you start looking

bitcurious 2 hours ago | parent

Something like one in five married men has cheated on their spouse, approx one in eight women. It’s not that tech CEOs are “like this” it’s that they are not that different from other people, outside of their professional skills.

serf 1 hour ago | parent

So you don't think the world's most powerful and richest people engage in infidelity more often than the guy that cleans the toilets at the local gas station?

every argument that attempts to humanize and 'us too' these types of folks (billionaires that own islands and ultra-yachts) totally bewilders me.

Barrin92 1 hour ago | parent

about 30-50% of people across cultures self-report infidelity. I grew up in a neighborhood where people had jobs like cleaning toilets and it's pretty difficult to cheat more than what I saw growing up. I can tell you from first hand that economically downward communities aren't known for their stable families

the thing that's stopping Joe from the gas station is that he lacks the yacht and the credit line, not any ethics. Jensen's no more or less human than anyone else. The issue with megacorporation's is structural, not some "these types of people' provincial nonsense

geraneum 1 hour ago | parent

> it’s that they are not that different from other people

For this conclusion to be valid, you have to provide the proportion of tech ceos who cheat.

somenameforme 52 minutes ago | parent

That number would be dramatically higher in scenarios where men had desirable women basically throwing themselves at them, which is the case for the extremely wealthy. This somehow reminds me of the Churchill joke:

    Churchill: Madam, would you sleep with me for $1 million?
    Woman: Why Winston, yes I would.
    Churchill: How about $10?
    Woman: What sort of woman do you think I am?
    Churchill: We've already established that. Now we're just negotiating the price.
And I think this is all a logical consequence of evolution, which is driven solely by fertility. A woman can only carry one child at a time and so it makes sense for them to seek a highly qualified/'resourceful' partner to have the most chance of her genes being successfully carried forward, whereas a man can theoretically father hundreds of children in a single year, so it makes sense for him to be more 'driven.'

qgin 51 minutes ago | parent

Studies show percentages all the way up to 40-50%, depending on methodologies and definitions.

thebeardisred 4 hours ago | parent

u1hcw9nx 4 hours ago | parent

Huang Holds 3.4% of Nvidia and has no dual-class voting rights. He can't prevent getting removed if the board thinks it's time.

rubyfan 4 hours ago | parent

Assuming the board is truly independent.

u1hcw9nx 3 hours ago | parent

They all are. No Jensen connections at all. All from finance or non related business.

eunos 4 hours ago | parent

Huge mistake of not trying to have dual class shares during the height of AI mania (or crypto)

ram1500natrluvr 3 hours ago | parent

Or Nvidia comes out of this damaged but not nearly as much as if they were glued to Jensen. "Superstar" CEOs that have complete control over a company are only benefits until they become enormous risks.

eunos 2 hours ago | parent

Reminded me to that Osborn scene at 2002 Spiderman.

hn_throwaway_99 3 hours ago | parent

There is no way that would have been possible. And as I saw another commenter mention, even if NVidia were founded much more recently when dual share structures became much more common, you rarely (or maybe never, I can't think of any cases) see that dual share structure in very capital intensive industries like hardware where you have to sink a ton of money into the enterprise before you even see any revenue. Software is a whole different ball game.

mallipeddi 2 hours ago | parent

But Elon Musk has supermajority through dual-class shares in SpaceX which is obviously a capital-intensive business even more so than making GPUs.

hi41 57 minutes ago | parent

We have become a permissive society in regard to sex and extramarital affairs. What’s so wrong about having an affair with another employee in the company? I think they are making a big deal about this.

skinfaxi 50 minutes ago | parent

Do you really think there is no issue with a person in a position of power engaging in an affair with a subordinate?

grimcompanion 43 minutes ago | parent

Can’t say I’m particularly bothered by it when the subordinate is 48 years old.

uptrails 40 minutes ago | parent

"Position of power" is a bit of a stretch when we're talking about two high-ranking execs who presumably make tens of millions of dollars. I doubt there's any problem related to consent / coercion here. They just wanted to bonk.

It's a corporate governance problem because the relationship can be seen as tainting personnel decisions. But that's HR optics versus morality.

Note that I'm not defending Huang, but I think he's done for because of the spy thing more than because of this.

shimman 47 minutes ago | parent

Well seeing how he also had an affair with a Chinese spy and broke federal law in assisting the Chinese government to access to billions of dollars worth of frontier AI chips, it's a little more than just worrying about extramarital affairs.

This is why you should only do one shitty thing at a time and not multiple.

sega_sai 46 minutes ago | parent

It is inappropriate to have relationships with subordinates.

randyrand 22 minutes ago | parent

No it's not. We are adults. Adults can consent to sex with other adults.

It's inappropriate to use coercion.

oliyoung 39 minutes ago | parent

It's not "another employee" it's a direct report, a power imbalance so cliched that it's the first dot point in any HR/P&C management course

randyrand 14 minutes ago | parent

Making it company policy also means the subordinate can now easily get the boss fired.

Which ironically swaps the power imbalance.

IncreasePosts 10 minutes ago | parent

The Chinese spy who he was having sex with and probably helping break export controls and smuggle Nvidia tech into China through singapore is probably a bigger deal than this one

sleazebreeze 4 hours ago | parent

I assumed he’d survive the one affair. A second one? Now I’m not so sure.

b112 4 hours ago | parent

Looks to me like he has a target on his back, and people are just throwing stuff at it now. This could have come out years ago, if it is true. No reason not to. None, not in this day and age.

So it's all opportunistic, at this point.

m463 4 hours ago | parent

nvda stock is on sale.

b112 4 hours ago | parent

Of course. Find allegations which will stick, short, leak the allegations.

Then Investor lawsuit kick off, more allegations, a big drop, profit. Then "oh well", "can't prove it".

This was all immensely quick, putting together an investor's lawsuit this fast, other allegations waiting...

It's almost as if someone had the lawsuit ready to go.

classictraffic 4 hours ago | parent

> Both Mr. Huang and Ms. Powell are married to other people

Dumb language question: if Powell is married, why isn’t she referred to as Mrs. Powell in this article?

eigenspace 4 hours ago | parent

Ms. is the not-so-new address that is agnostic about the married status of the woman.

Many people find it demeaning to address women differently depending on whether or not they are married, especially when we don't do the same for men.

grepex 4 hours ago | parent

That's funny, I've met men who think it isn't fair and wish we got a title change too!

layer8 4 hours ago | parent

We could start using Mrr. for that (pronounced “misterer”).

BigTTYGothGF 4 hours ago | parent

"Ms" didn't just happen, it was an effort. Those dudes should be the change they want to see in the world.

TwoFerMaggie 4 hours ago | parent

Maybe they can start by taking their wives' last names xD

actionfromafar 3 hours ago | parent

Some do.

limagnolia 2 hours ago | parent

I offered, but my wife was like "hell no"! So I offered that we create a new last name instead of using either. She declined that as well.

lazide 17 minutes ago | parent

Many cultures the last (and first) names differ by the gender of the name holder, so it makes it even more confusing if you try that.

Notably, both my (now ex) wives insisted on taking my last name. I didn’t really care either way.

flexagoon 2 hours ago | parent

You can get a PhD and have a title change to Dr!

GaryBluto 1 hour ago | parent

>especially when we don't do the same for men.

I was always taught it was 'Master' for unmarried and young men.

nonethewiser 38 minutes ago | parent

You're damn right it is

mikrotikker 12 minutes ago | parent

Even when the last name is "Bates"?

Scharkenberg 4 hours ago | parent

"Mrs." is falling out of style. I kind of get it. "Mistress" is a loaded word, if you think about it.

dualvariable 2 hours ago | parent

I'm 55 years old and never thought about that, because the link never occurred to me.

But when Mrs first stood for Mistress, the word Mistress wasn't "loaded" at all.

flexagoon 2 hours ago | parent

I never knew Mrs. stood for "mistress", I always thought it just came from "Mr's", as in, the wife of some mister

stavros 6 minutes ago | parent

That's what "mistress" means.

kevin_thibedeau 1 hour ago | parent

> "Mistress" is a loaded word

Only in English.

bethekidyouwant 1 hour ago | parent

Is english word

cheesecakegood 1 hour ago | parent

I always thought that it was Mrs. = missus, Ms. = miz, at least that’s how I would say them, but I now realize that a) that’s plainly incorrect and b) I’ve never actually ever seen them non-abbreviated.

If an abbreviation is never expanded, is it still an abbreviation? Personally I think it isn’t; I advocate for condensing i.e./e.g. to simply ie and eg, though this is a minority opinion.

hammock 39 minutes ago | parent

Missus is a contraction of mistress (the feminine form of master/mister)

grepex 4 hours ago | parent

Ms. is just a safe neutral default.

TwoFerMaggie 4 hours ago | parent

> It is generally considered polite to address a woman by Ms. rather than Mrs., unless the preference of the woman in question is clearly known. This is especially true in written communication, as dictated by professional etiquette.[1]

> [Ms. is] intended as a default form of address for women regardless of marital status. [2]

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mrs. [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ms.

classictraffic 4 hours ago | parent

Wow, I truly had no idea and thought Mrs. was always supposed to be used for married women. Thanks!

timr 3 hours ago | parent

You didn’t know, because it started with Gloria Steinem in the 70s.

Wikipedia tries to make it sound like it’s some old tradition, but it’s actually fairly new, with the prior historical references being obscure until it was resurrected. It’s right there in the article:

> “Ms. was another acceptable, but rarely used, abbreviation for Mistress in England in the 17th and 18th centuries.[12] During the 19th century, however, Mrs. and Miss came to be associated almost exclusively with marital status,[13] and Ms. was popularized as an alternative in the late 20th century“

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ms.

rgmerk 3 hours ago | parent

Fairly new? Using "Ms" has been standard practice in the New York Times for 40 years, and it was regarded as a holdout at the time.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/04/06/insider/1986-ms-joins-the...

timr 3 hours ago | parent

Cant read it, but the title literally says “1986, ‘Ms’ joins the Times vocabulary”, so I’m guessing that, you know…1986 is when it became the Times’ standard. This likely corresponds to the campaign of Geraldine Ferraro, which is what I personally remember as the point where the term became widespread.

I don’t understand this need to rewrite history. Nobody in this thread is objecting to the use of the term. Even the wikipedia article says the term was resurrected in the 80s.

x1798DE 3 hours ago | parent

Hate to break it to you my dude but 1986 is 40 years ago.

Skeletor will return next week with more disturbing reminders about passage of time...

timr 3 hours ago | parent

Hate to break it to you, but you’re arguing with me about something I never said. I said it was revived in the 70s.

The term is recent in a linguistic sense. Even if you personally think it’s ancient history, “my dude”, there are plenty of us alive where it was invented in our lifetime.

A teacher explained this to me in elementary school as some new fad.

> Skeletor will return next week with more disturbing reminders about passage of time...

Classy edit, btw.

x1798DE 2 hours ago | parent

What? You had a whole thing about rewriting history because the parent said the NYT adopted 40 years ago, then you made a big deal about how it was in 1986 and resurrected in the 80s and talked about rewriting history.

What was that all about if you both perfectly agree on the timeline?

> Classy edit, btw.

Edit? I did not edit my post. I think you may not understand what that means. It is neither classy nor unclassy, it is a type of meme.

timr 2 hours ago | parent

> What? You had a whole thing about rewriting history because the parent said the NYT adopted 40 years ago, then you made a big deal about how it was in 1986 and resurrected in the 80s and talked about rewriting history.

It's simply a fact that the term was revived in the 70s and popularized in the 80s. The person I replied to was trying to imply that was incorrect, by suggesting that the NY Times was some long-time holdout.

lokar 1 hour ago | parent

It’s recent linguistically, but not culturally, which I think is more important here.

timr 1 hour ago | parent

It's recent both linguistically and culturally. It was a thing in my lifetime, to the point where I remember explaining it to other people in high school (which was itself about a decade after the term became "popular").

I realize that the average age on HN is quite young, but we're not talking about ancient history here.

layer8 4 hours ago | parent

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mrs.#Modern_usage

“It is generally considered polite to address a woman by Ms. rather than Mrs., unless the preference of the woman in question is clearly known. This is especially true in written communication, as dictated by professional etiquette. […] It is normally considered correct to address a woman as Ms. [Lastname], regardless of her marital status.”

p-e-w 2 hours ago | parent

This applies mostly to the US, to a lesser extent to the UK, and to a much lesser extent (or not at all) to the dozen or so other Anglosphere countries.

But as we all know, the US is all that matters, so you may as well state outright that it “is so”, and move on.

freehorse 1 hour ago | parent

I looked at guardian's style guide (british) and some australian style guide I found and they both default to "Ms". Which specific anglosphere country did you have in mind?

heromal 1 hour ago | parent

It was just an opportunity to throw in some low effort /r/AmericaBad shade

HaZeust 1 hour ago | parent

What value did second paragraph contribute to discussion?

acedTrex 59 minutes ago | parent

This is an American news paper reporting on an American CEO of an American company...

nonethewiser 39 minutes ago | parent

>It is generally considered polite to address a woman by Ms. rather than Mrs., unless the preference of the woman in question is clearly known.

Hm. Weird. Never seen that before. Let's check the source, emilypost.com:

>Mx. Is the universal title that can be used by anyone. It is gender non-identifying. Even if you identify specifically with a gender you may still use Mx. and you may see Mx. used when the sender is unaware of your title.

https://emilypost.com/advice/guide-to-addressing-corresponde...

OK, im out. I'm immediately out.

JeremyNT 28 minutes ago | parent

> Hm. Weird. Never seen that before. Let's check the source, emilypost.com

This is taught to children in the United States. I didn't go to an especially good school and I remember it to this day. If you're not from the US the custom may be different.

Perhaps you will consider the advice from Grammarly [0] as a more acceptable source.

[0] https://www.grammarly.com/blog/commonly-confused-words/ms-mr...

lazide 19 minutes ago | parent

I think they were referring to Mx, which is indeed hilarious!

MaxHoppersGhost 24 minutes ago | parent

How does one pronounce Mx?

thot_experiment 5 minutes ago | parent

You're out because you don't think non-binary people are real and you can't imagine a situation where you'd want an ambiguous honorific?

fspeech 4 hours ago | parent

A married woman may not have taken her husband's name. Mrs. implies it while Ms. is neutral.

swat535 2 hours ago | parent

In many places, the law doesn't allow for the woman to take the man's name. Only children's family name can be decided.

LeFantome 47 minutes ago | parent

> if Powell is married, why isn’t she referred to as Mrs. Powell in this article?

Because she is about to be single?

jliendo 43 minutes ago | parent

Dumb profiling question, why isn’t Ms. Powell referred as a “spy” in this article?

anthk 4 hours ago | parent

In the end a Chinese model was a risk to national security...

metalman 4 hours ago | parent

He's kind of like 'scum bag lite' and now barely qualifies to join the rest of the mega wealthy and powerfull in there conspicuos imunity from censure.

bz_bz_bz 4 hours ago | parent

If his personal security detained the person videoing them and offered them money to sign an NDA, it feels like something they had experience with. Could this just be the tip of the iceberg?

pcbro141 4 hours ago | parent

Most likely. It's hard to imagine an ultra rich man who is already unfaithful to only be having sex with 2 women. Wouldn't be surprised if there was a lot more, including paid encounters.

kappi 4 hours ago | parent

If you see two ants in kitchen, actual count is not 2!

matthewdgreen 1 hour ago | parent

This is actually an instance of the German Tank Problem.

sk5t 1 hour ago | parent

Are you implying his partners bear serial numbers?

adrianmonk 1 hour ago | parent

Presumably so. Evidently he is a serial philanderer.

skinfaxi 1 hour ago | parent

"Beware of the camel's nose"

teaearlgraycold 1 hour ago | parent

I don't really care that much about Jensen being an unfaithful husband. That kind of pales in comparison to hoarding hundreds of billions of dollars. And as far as "paid encounters" go - I would hope no one uses this as an opportunity to tell me prostitution is unethical.

kodoman 42 minutes ago | parent

Yeah the moral angle of 'oh my god a billionaire was unfaithful' is just bizarre, given all the Epstein stuff at least he is cheating with adult women who consent.

jpeeler 2 minutes ago | parent

I think you just proved the point that people's stance on morality is not universal.

lotsofpulp 4 minutes ago | parent

How do you know he is hoarding hundreds of billions of US dollars?

Is it possible you are conflating USD with Nvidia shares that he hasn’t sold? Is he not allowed to have 3.5% of the voting power for Nvidia?

Haven880 51 minutes ago | parent

I dont think this is sex level. A date or kissing seems more likely. You can see all reports including rumors didnt talk about sex part.

lazide 24 minutes ago | parent

Lolz

randyrand 40 minutes ago | parent

Oh the horror! Let's hope he doesn't enjoy it while he's doing it too. I can only bear so much.

tclancy 3 hours ago | parent

Somebody have an agent go back and look at that Coldplay concert footage.

tiznow 3 hours ago | parent

It's the tip of something, at least.

outside1234 1 hour ago | parent

"If there are two ants in your kitchen then there are probably hundreds more"

lapcat 4 hours ago | parent

I knew this was going to happen. It's highly unlikely that a man cheats on his wife for the first time after age 60. This was just the first time he was outed for it.

I hated the misogynistic narrative that Huang was somehow helpless against a super-spy-seductress. Men can in fact control themselves, and it takes a lot of effort, you might even say willpower, to turn a business meeting into a bedroom encounter, especially when you're in the public eye. If Huang was targeted, it was because he was an easy target, a philanderer.

JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago | parent

> This was just the first time he was outed for it

For good reason. The level of fuck-up in sleeping with a Chinese spy and then having the gall to try and corruptly quash the investigations into it, coming clean only after Congress flips, is nuts.

I’m not convinced a good CEO can’t have affairs. I am convinced a liar and corrupter can’t.

UltraSane 4 hours ago | parent

Yes even if you are a billionaire women don't just spontaneously strip naked for you it takes a real effort to make it happen.

JKCalhoun 3 hours ago | parent

"I knew this was going to happen."

Maybe his autographing that women's bra (boob?) at a trade show was a red flag…

jorl17 2 hours ago | parent

On nearly every post online about his affair, one of the most visible comments always ended up being about how one must "understand" that this just sort of "happens" when you're this rich and powerful. Poor thing, couldn't keep it in his pants. "Oh, just think of how hard it would be to resist! Would you?"

I pity whomever is in a relationship with someone who actually thinks that way. I'm disgusted, to be honest.

wewewedxfgdf 4 hours ago | parent

Gotta get me a sharp looking leather jacket - that must be what's getting him all this action.

layer8 4 hours ago | parent

You might need to also acquire his level of net worth.

wewewedxfgdf 4 hours ago | parent

Nah - it's the style, the vibe of his presence.

People don't see the money, the global geopolitical issues at stake - they see the man - they see the jacket.

dancing 4 hours ago | parent

The wealth will come, but only after you get the jacket first.

hackingonempty 3 hours ago | parent

You gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the jacket. Then when you get the jacket, then you get the woman.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6gHS-eJNCQ

jihadjihad 2 hours ago | parent

It’s the jacket that makes the man.

groby_b 4 hours ago | parent

Purely accident that the news dribbles out like that. Nothing to see, moving on.

(If he's done this without his wife's full consent, he's certainly a despicable human, but that doesn't change that this looks like a really nicely orchestrated PR hit job)

mlfreeman 4 hours ago | parent

I agree with you. I also find it “interesting” that this all really started appearing a few days after DOJ made angry noises about nVidia buying Hugging Face.

mrtksn 4 hours ago | parent

Can someone explain how the CEO sex life is relevant? Is it because of the risk of a messy divorce that can both distract the CEO and eventually force voting share transfer since he’s also a shareholder? This isn’t really like the Chinese spy mistress thing after all.

Edit: honestly, this one feels like a moralistic freak out more than anything. Who cares about sex with the non-spy lady?

baby_souffle 4 hours ago | parent

> Can someone explain how the CEO sex life is relevant?

If it's true that he had the affair with the CCP spy or otherwise was encouraged to sell GPUs using loopholes that violate export bans, that would put him and NVDA into some hot water.

Investors do not like that and the implications for any rapid change in NVDA valuation would be immense.

mrtksn 4 hours ago | parent

Sure, the spy lady sex story is relevant but this is a different non-spy woman.

galleywest200 3 hours ago | parent

He slept with a subordinate employee, which is a fire-able offense in essentially any corporate environment I have ever worked in.

mrtksn 3 hours ago | parent

So? He is a shareholder and CEO having sex with another consenting adult, who and why anyone would fire him. AFAIK Musk had kids with his subordinates and became a trillionaire afterwards.

ethanlipson 2 hours ago | parent

Because she's not actually able to properly consent if she feels her job is on the line, whether it actually is or not. When a supervisor comes onto their subordinate, that subordinate may feel that they'd be putting future work opportunities (e.g. promotions) in jeopardy if they say no. Or worse, they'd worry that they're putting their employment at risk. Even if Jensen had "pure" intentions and this affair in principle didn't affect their working relationship, he in fact can't know that.

jubilanti 2 hours ago | parent

For the same reason that, today, you're not considered a national security risk if you are openly gay, but you still are if you are closeted and trying to hide it. You can't easily blackmail an Elon type who has no shame and whose sex and drug addictions are part of his public reputation. Jensen presented himself as a faithful family man.

Also, if you cannot comprehend that there are issues of consent when it comes to having a sexual relationship with someone whose career you can destroy with no consequences, then I seriously hope you never get a management position. Elon's boards seem to be okay with this, but that is not the norm.

QuiEgo 2 hours ago | parent

Say your boss has two reports, you and someone else. You are the same gender as the someone else. They are sleeping with the someone else. They then promote the someone else while not promoting you. Now you have to ask yourself: do I need to have sex with the boss to get promoted? This type of situation is why most companies will fire you if you’re sleeping with someone you’re writing the performance reviews for. Also, all of Jensens reports now have a path to sue Nvidia for unfair treatment, he put the company at huge risk.

flowerlad 44 minutes ago | parent

You can ingratiate yourself to your boss without having sex. I have seen people doing non-sexual favors to then successfully get promoted. Not saying that sex with subordinate is OK, but that you have to ban all kinds of personal favors.

Sparkle-san 4 hours ago | parent

Yes, his actions carry potential shareholder risk and the board has a fiduciary duty to treat it as such. Nvidia (and Jensen) carry extra risk given their corporate structure which is flatter than most companies. Jensen has dozens of direct reports and is a cornerstone of the company. The recent changes to the stock price exemplify all of this.

sparkling 4 hours ago | parent

Potential for blackmailing, messy divorce, corporate liability with regards to potential sexual harassment lawsuits, overall negative PR/image... and a dozen other reasons.

cromka 4 hours ago | parent

Yes, no one questions what he does with his wife (or used to...). That's sex life. Promiscuity and risky behaviors are that and have nothing to do with his sex life.

glimshe 4 hours ago | parent

The latest one reported to him. If he wasn't the CEO, he'd be long gone.

rgmerk 3 hours ago | parent

Having an extramarital affair in and of itself isn't a fireable offence. Having sex with a subordinate is.

s1artibartfast 2 hours ago | parent

Shouldn't be if the other person is an adult and there were no high pressure tactics.

fwlr 2 hours ago | parent

Having sex with a subordinate is the high pressure tactic.

s1artibartfast 58 minutes ago | parent

No its not, quite literally. It can can come with pressure but doeant have to.

It is basically the difference between impropriety and appearance or possibility of impropriety

triceratops 38 minutes ago | parent

His other subordinates will wonder if they have to do the same to get promoted.

Taniwha 24 minutes ago | parent

shoobiedoo 4 hours ago | parent

I'm not condoning cheating at all, but if you're a billionaire with endless connections around the world, why wouldn't you just go to an escort if you can't keep it in your pants.

I know things are different when you're only thinking with your johnson but jeez, showing up with the same woman in front of the media many times and even displaying affection in front of a camera (there is pictures of them with light body contact afaik), what did he think was going to happen?

UltraSane 4 hours ago | parent

Being seen in public so often with a mistress seems extremely arrogant or wanting to get caught.

a_bonobo 2 hours ago | parent

it's a power thing - yeah he could go to an escort, but then it becomes only about money. He wants these relationships as a proof of his power; then walking around in public is to flaunt the power, the 'you can't do me nothing, look at me'. Power is the drug.

UltraSane 21 minutes ago | parent

The impunity is the point.

minimaxa 4 hours ago | parent

Now we have to live through this nonsense for 10 years in the news.

He should have retired and done a handover last month and left at his peak to a beach villa on Maui...

nixonaddiction 4 hours ago | parent

tbh if jensen is that prolific i wouldnt be shocked if lori huang knows and has like, made her peace with it.

achandra03 1 hour ago | parent

Would not be the least bit surprised if the vast majority of men at this level of wealth/status have "arrangements" with their significant others.

prawn 1 hour ago | parent

Isn't that the least of factors in the story (spy, subordinate, etc)?

karimf 4 hours ago | parent

Related: Nvidia Is Preparing to Oust Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50459703

ecocentrik 4 hours ago | parent

Maybe I'm too old and stupid but I'm less concerned knowing that the guy has a few mistresses. It makes it less likely that any of these ladies are tugging on his heart strings for the keys to his kingdom. Nvidia security is probably all over these affairs monitoring his communications, personal devices...

corroclaro 4 hours ago | parent

If he were French, no one would have blinked.

parametersss 3 hours ago | parent

Michael J. Burry getting two for the price of one

nxobject 3 hours ago | parent

Well, there goes the productivity bragging he does about his nonstop work ethic and sheer number of direct reports.

bpiroman 2 hours ago | parent

Leave Jensen alone!!

rdtsc 2 hours ago | parent

> Mr. Huang’s security witnessed the bystander with their phone and sequestered them, the people said. They made the person an offer to sign a nondisclosure agreement

This is not their first rodeo, is it? Wonder how much was offered? Did the person take it? ("hey, psst, we'll throw the latest GPU card on the table, how about now?")

Then, will Huang issue another, equally sincere, public apology to his wife about this other affair. He could have grouped them both into a batch for efficiency I guess.

jan_m_savage 2 hours ago | parent

[黃 (huáng) literally means yellow, but in slang and compound words, it can mean vulgar or lewd]....

Here's an example:

開黃腔 (kāi huáng qiāng) – to make a lewd or sexually suggestive remark.

All those years me learning Chinese haven't gone to waste--yet. :)

jihadjihad 2 hours ago | parent

Seems legit [0]:

> sexually obscene; pornographic

0: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/黃

chasil 2 hours ago | parent

He should be allowed to retain the CEO role if he tattoos the following on his right forearm:

"Do not #&$+ where you eat."

Seriously, a second mistress, who is unqualified?

https://www.cnbc.com/2026/11/11/nvidia-jensen-huang-affair-e...

I just put a large amount of money into Nvidia, and I am aghast.

You never, ever have intimate relationships with professional connections. Ever.

Edit: Best meme so far...

https://s.yimg.com/lo/mysterio/api/55ed1286be8498d8efe431101...

rjh29 1 hour ago | parent

I find it hard to describe why this comment triggers me... partly because 黃 is the 7th most common surname in China. And I don't think any native speaker would make that connection. It's like saying "haha that guy named Ryan Johnson was adulterous because his surname is slang for a penis!"

bigstrat2003 1 hour ago | parent

> It's like saying "haha that guy named Ryan Johnson was adulterous because his surname is slang for a penis!"

That's totally a joke people would make. Joking about nominative determinism happens all the time.

owlninja 57 minutes ago | parent

You just made me have a flashback to the early 90s when there was a popular brand of t-shirts called 'Big Johnson' with the character E. Normus Johnson. The jokes wrote themselves and I am sort of shocked to see they are actually still in business!

andsoitis 1 hour ago | parent

Are you also into numerology?

s1artibartfast 2 hours ago | parent

Was she over 18? Seems like a non-issue

TZubiri 2 hours ago | parent

It might be an issue in internal HR terms, and in terms of external fiduciary duties to investors since it's a public company.

In terms of sexual crimes, I think there's cases and situations where there can be coercion, but it's not necessarily the case.

Oh also it's a breach of the marital contract of course.

s1artibartfast 58 minutes ago | parent

Do we live under Sharia law? I didn't realize infidelity was a crime

voganmother42 49 minutes ago | parent

Evading export controls and lying about it is a crime, falling for a spy is stupid and has tons of potential fall out, having an affair with a direct report is a major liability, I wonder what is next, maybe we will find out more about the connection to the administration next, this season of the leather lothario is wild, will it be the finale, is there another season of fall guy or a full on traitor arc?

TZubiri 40 minutes ago | parent

No I don't think it is, a breach of contract is a civil matter, not a criminal one. I think it's especially relevant in the case of the CEO of a company, it's certainly common for contracts to be breached, but it doesn't reflect positively on the company.

Marital contracts are not unlike commercial contracts and we are finding out the CEO is in the (non)business of systematically violating them.

AndroTux 2 hours ago | parent

Right? Why are we suddenly pretending like shareholders have such high morals? I really don't understand what's going on. Destroying the world is fine, but cheating, that's where I draw the line!

serf 1 hour ago | parent

destroying the world hasn't yet set a precedent that made CEOs (and the investors under their umbrella) weary of an alimony payout.

bar8uyr 2 hours ago | parent

One of them was 9

viklove 1 hour ago | parent

The more comments I read from HNers under articles regarding Jensen Huang, the more I realize that the crowd here is completely lost.

Ya'll need help.

insane_dreamer 2 hours ago | parent

the timing of this coming out now is certainly not a coincidence; same with the spy affair (which was known a year or two ago). the interesting question is who wants Jensen gone

skinfaxi 48 minutes ago | parent

This is the real question we need to be asking.

NoPicklez 28 minutes ago | parent

Yes and no, Nvidia have said they're conducting their own internal investigation among others. It doesn't surprise me that more information about this or other allegations come out while the fire is hot.

But I agree, anyone within the Nvidia circle looking to spread the information is certainly not doing it to help Jensen.

harhargange 1 hour ago | parent

If, at the end of the day, it is moral merit that matters for leadership positions, why is the hiring and training paradigm solely focused on technical skills?

Haven880 53 minutes ago | parent

Is the affair just be on surface like chitchat and dates, holding hands and kissing minus the Elon level of bed and babies? In the traditional western context you have to bed the women to consider affairs. Anything on surface is more like feminist definition of affair. Can anyone confirm the bedding part? Or even babies like Elon?

alex1138 48 minutes ago | parent

Isn't Jensen on record as saying he won't do 1 on 1 meetings with employees? He seems like a run of the mill sociopath that runs off the work other people do

ticksi 48 minutes ago | parent

who up huangin' they jensen rn?

yanhangyhy 12 minutes ago | parent

Everyone is completely indifferent to the white guys who visited Little Saint James, yet a boring affair gets treated like the biggest news in the world.