230 points karimf 1 hour ago 216 comments
holdingunsteady 1 hour ago | parent
Subject: A message to our company
Body: "I owe my family and all of you an apology.
I was unfaithful to my wife. My actions hurt her and our children. There is no excuse for what I did. I am deeply sorry.
Throughout my life, my family has given me love and support. They deserve my honesty and loyalty. Instead, I let them down and damaged the life we built together. I take full responsibility for what I did and the hurt I caused, and I accept the criticism that comes with it.
To my wife and family: I love you. I know an apology cannot undo what I have done. I hope our family will heal and that, over time, I can earn back your trust.
To my colleagues at NVIDIA, including those I have worked alongside for decades, and to our board, partners, and shareholders around the world: you deserve better from me. Leading NVIDIA is the privilege of my life. My responsibility is to serve you and be worthy of your trust. I have fallen short of that responsibility. I am fully committed to NVIDIA and will work to earn back your confidence.
Regarding the national security concerns raised in news reports, NVIDIA's Board of Directors has initiated an independent investigation. I support the investigation and will cooperate fully. I love our country and our company, and I am committed to protecting NVIDIA and supporting America's national security. I am proud and grateful to be an American.
My family bears no responsibility for my choices. I do. Please give them privacy."
janalsncm 1 hour ago | parent
readthenotes1 1 hour ago | parent
There was, no deflection "this is not who I am", No blaming the spy.
He owned up to his mistakes
adriand 1 hour ago | parent
reverend_gonzo 53 minutes ago | parent
It is one person, and your enemies have all the resources at your disposal.
It is very easy to say, “I would never do X” but when you literally have a nation trying to get you do X, I presume it’s a lot harder.
Noaidi 49 minutes ago | parent
yodon 1 hour ago | parent
I don't mean to belittle the letter, but Jensen's PR firm undoubtedly helped with the letter and undoubtedly had advisors who specialize in this.
shermantanktop 52 minutes ago | parent
He's a big time CEO and his company is impacted by how well he handles it. So of course there are PR/crisis people around. They specialize in making psychopaths look human.
But leaders are where they are because they make good decisions - their character does matter. Calling in the image-fixer types to clean up your mistakes is easy mode.
TheOtherHobbes 39 minutes ago | parent
Can we assume this was a one-off because she was uniquely persistent and persuasive?
TheOtherHobbes 45 minutes ago | parent
Anyone who believes he personally agonised over this alone in a darkened room is being rather naive.
charlieyu1 33 minutes ago | parent
benzible 51 minutes ago | parent
Even if he didn’t know she was an intelligence asset, it’s hard to believe he didn’t at least suspect Megaspeed was a conduit to China. If you read the press reports, there were a ton of red flags.
Nvidia has also said he’ll stay on as CEO while the investigation runs. I can’t think of many CEOs who would survive this, let alone without taking any time off.
greenchair 36 minutes ago | parent
Noaidi 1 hour ago | parent
8note 1 hour ago | parent
i guess we'll actually find out if he gave away useful nvidia secrets in years from now, but by then the tech might not matter all that much to Nvidia.
he was cheating on his wife before now, and Nvidia was doing just fine
madaxe_again 36 minutes ago | parent
DeepLogin 1 hour ago | parent
intunderflow 52 minutes ago | parent
vhiremath4 48 minutes ago | parent
rc1 40 minutes ago | parent
> admitted to having a romantic relationship with a suspected Chinese spy
markdown 33 minutes ago | parent
He admitted to having a relationship with a woman.
There's a separate question of whether the woman was a spy.
avazhi 19 minutes ago | parent
I mean, it's pretty clear it was a spy. Have a look at WSJ, NYT, etc. It isn't tabloidish to say so.
rc1 19 minutes ago | parent
Whether tabloid, or completely inaccurate, Nvida make reference to it and that there is an independent investigation. It is not wrong for people to wonder what that is given they mention it.
creatonez 37 minutes ago | parent
DeepLogin 33 minutes ago | parent
I mean they are literally the same article in essence. One is from the official source and the other is paywalled with nothing worthy added.
The choice is clear.
mmooss 35 minutes ago | parent
kittikitti 1 hour ago | parent
mbgerring 54 minutes ago | parent
The US National Security blob certainly cares, but not because of the infidelity.
mbgerring 52 minutes ago | parent
yeeetz 42 minutes ago | parent
solyin 6 minutes ago | parent
shermantanktop 49 minutes ago | parent
ctmlr 23 minutes ago | parent
dnw 59 minutes ago | parent
theandrewbailey 45 minutes ago | parent
*Crash in progress.
jryan49 39 minutes ago | parent
hackernud3s 21 minutes ago | parent
calvinmorrison 59 minutes ago | parent
jackweirdy 57 minutes ago | parent
JoshTriplett 31 minutes ago | parent
Technically, they collect the company salary, and then the CIA reduces their pay by the same amount.
At one point, they couldn't keep any excess if the company pay was higher. Now, they're apparently allowed to keep an amount that doesn't significantly exceed comparable federal pay.
derektank 27 minutes ago | parent
calvinmorrison 1 minute ago | parent
danpalmer 58 minutes ago | parent
I'd expect a board to fire a CEO over this, so he will have to be critical to the business, more than a normal CEO is critical, to survive. The market reaction to him going would also be interesting. Seems like the markets are starting to figure out what the value is here.
dingaling911 57 minutes ago | parent
teknologist 55 minutes ago | parent
Tadpole9181 25 minutes ago | parent
danpalmer 12 minutes ago | parent
These aren't all entirely drop-in replacements, there are some trade-offs involved, but there are many companies with alternatives that could take Nvidia's market if they stall.
andsoitis 7 minutes ago | parent
Which of those sell chips at the Nvidia caliber sell to AI model builders in the US (not use internally)?
jsw97 55 minutes ago | parent
mjr00 51 minutes ago | parent
The one big thing I will given Huang credit for is not going all-in on blockchain and recognizing it as a bubble. NVidia never really pivoted from their core business/customers to support crypto miners, unlike what they're doing with AI.
javier2 49 minutes ago | parent
est31 46 minutes ago | parent
Nvidia boosts AI a lot. They are the central bank of AI. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49673098
mjr00 40 minutes ago | parent
est31 15 minutes ago | parent
altmanaltman 38 minutes ago | parent
mjr00 29 minutes ago | parent
SXX 36 minutes ago | parent
Even when AI boom was imminient but 10 times smaller 2-3 years ago they did not invested heavily enough and Nvidia went all in.
I have no clue what percent of that decision making was Huang, but all the competition leadership was certainly incompetent.
So at least he did built company with a good leadership. Its a fact. Even if I personally dont like Nvidia or its products.
xiaoyu2006 36 minutes ago | parent
hcta 36 minutes ago | parent
that is generally what it looks like when someone is smarter than you
mjr00 32 minutes ago | parent
Maybe. This is also what everyone said about Elon for a long time, though.
CamperBob2 24 minutes ago | parent
solyin 31 minutes ago | parent
mjr00 23 minutes ago | parent
iambateman 49 minutes ago | parent
andsoitis 38 minutes ago | parent
He's the visionary behind what they do and the person who influences industries around him to make it real.
plaidfuji 32 minutes ago | parent
hoppp 31 minutes ago | parent
bluegatty 29 minutes ago | parent
God god, no.
There's very little he could ever accidentally tell someone that would matter that much.
Other than handing over very detailed schemas etc, there's almost nothing important he could tell them.
Maybe some future ideas and plans, maybe some government things about the Administration, it's small peanuts.
Nvidia is an operational success, their IP is embedded within deep layers of know how and expertise.
He's the 'father' of that org, he set the tone, they like him there.
Nvidia would risk being an Intel without him.
danpalmer 27 minutes ago | parent
bluegatty 24 minutes ago | parent
denkmoon 2 minutes ago | parent
agnosticmantis 23 minutes ago | parent
carlos-menezes 57 minutes ago | parent
No, you do not.
tetrisgm 54 minutes ago | parent
iLemming 47 minutes ago | parent
petit_robert 11 minutes ago | parent
Looking at her picture might provide a hint.
axegon_ 56 minutes ago | parent
Betelbuddy 41 minutes ago | parent
Yajirobe 56 minutes ago | parent
shoobiedoo 52 minutes ago | parent
wmf 46 minutes ago | parent
flowerlad 56 minutes ago | parent
tsunamifury 39 minutes ago | parent
flowerlad 33 minutes ago | parent
nemomarx 31 minutes ago | parent
It's hard to say from the outside what the goals would be - pushing him in certain directions, extracting intel, etc.
augment_me 54 minutes ago | parent
DragonStrength 51 minutes ago | parent
stingraycharles 51 minutes ago | parent
This letter is just part of the ceremony of events that is expected to happen afterwards.
dannyw 41 minutes ago | parent
There’s been recent power spats (JD Vance’s tweet, Susie being replaced by Steve Bannon, and probably more infighting).
As much as I want to believe there’s greater 4D chess and motivation, I assign a modest probability to someone going “fuck it”, opening a massive short on NVDA, and then leaking it just for the love of insider trading. Rather than anything strategic or real.
jryle70 17 minutes ago | parent
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/us/coldplay-kiss-c...
Jensen Huang's case is even more high profile because of the spying accusation.
Noaidi 50 minutes ago | parent
She was also a Chinese spy.
> It's 2026, we literally had a human child trafficking ring with multiple presidents involved and it didnt lead to anything or move the needle on stuff.
He admitted to the affair. No one has admitted to being a pedo. Much less forgivable.
ryandrake 42 minutes ago | parent
anon7725 50 minutes ago | parent
Would that count?
fastily 47 minutes ago | parent
dolebirchwood 42 minutes ago | parent
fastily 38 minutes ago | parent
fc417fc802 36 minutes ago | parent
dinkumthinkum 34 minutes ago | parent
DragonStrength 22 minutes ago | parent
techblueberry 45 minutes ago | parent
fwlr 36 minutes ago | parent
bluegatty 28 minutes ago | parent
method_capital 52 minutes ago | parent
kraken_cult 51 minutes ago | parent
twodave 16 minutes ago | parent
plant-ian 51 minutes ago | parent
plant-ian 47 minutes ago | parent
iambateman 50 minutes ago | parent
I’m not sure if this will ruin Jensen’s life or not, but it’s a good opportunity for us all to remember that the short-term high is usually not worth it.
voidfunc 48 minutes ago | parent
His likely ex-wife is about to be very rich tho.
dannyw 44 minutes ago | parent
How much of NVIDIA’s sales and revenues is actually to China? Would that be allowed to happen still?
caminante 41 minutes ago | parent
If the camel had a back, then it was already broken, IMHO.
Betelbuddy 45 minutes ago | parent
rustyhancock 43 minutes ago | parent
But I'm not sure how hard it would be to resist a honey trap.
I mean a state sponsored enterprise to get you to have sex with someone (or one of a group of people).
Getting him to have sex with her was literally this woman's day job and she was probably told it was a matter of national security.
It is quite absurd once you think about it.
olyjohn 9 minutes ago | parent
hackernud3s 28 minutes ago | parent
People continue to under-value the spank bank. SMH.
tetrisgm 49 minutes ago | parent
Barrin92 41 minutes ago | parent
Secondly if he's willing to lie to his wife and family he's obviously willing to lie to anyone for much less. It tells you something about the character of a person, how can anyone trust a cheater?
randyrand 6 minutes ago | parent
tgma 48 minutes ago | parent
An "exposure" of affair[1] could very well be the best coverup: "couldn't control my dick" is the ultimate plausible deniability. Timing also makes sense. Better open an investigation and get it closed while this Congress is still in power, as the next one is going to be more in bed in LLM companies than hardware.
[1]: The other party is overtly a customer, not some random individual.
Betelbuddy 43 minutes ago | parent
the_duke 48 minutes ago | parent
Someone leaked intelligence assessments to the New York Times.
Maybe this was just a regular leak ... but ...
Jensen/Nvidia has not been playing ball with other parts of the AI industry and the administration, pushing heavily against export bans and promoting open source models/companies , which is clearly against the interests of SpaceX/OpenAI/Anthropic.
This is conspiracy theory territory, of course, but I wouldn't be too surprised if this was an intentional leak.
icegreentea2 8 minutes ago | parent
Consider the timing of the reporting - the first report from NYT comes out on Nov 6th - just enough time after mid-terms. Consider that follow up reporting clearly identifying Rubio as the author of the in-administration warning memo.
JD and Rubio (and who knows who else) are clearly trying to find ways to distance themselves from Trump without being completely cut to pieces, now that it's completely clear that the Trump brand is toxic.
xyst 46 minutes ago | parent
His fate will probably follow the Boston tech company CEO that got caught cheating with HR executive at a Coldplay concert.
ionwake 45 minutes ago | parent
I know others have said this is a carefully written statement, but in my culture I would feel it would be rude not to keep it private? Sorry if this sounds autistic.
yeeetz 44 minutes ago | parent
butternet 44 minutes ago | parent
ethanj8011 43 minutes ago | parent
nonfamous 25 minutes ago | parent
xhevahir 43 minutes ago | parent
urams 42 minutes ago | parent
umeshunni 41 minutes ago | parent
TheAlchemist 39 minutes ago | parent
Unless the CEO happens to be the CEO of what is considered one of the most important company for national security and future, and his private life involves somebody who appears to be a spy for the biggest competitor for world hegemony. Then it's kind of big deal for everybody.
glitchbot 39 minutes ago | parent
wrexx0r 39 minutes ago | parent
It also sounds like it was known something was going on with foreign agencies and Jensen, do this puts it out in the open and clears the air.
Lastly, if anyone was trying to use the affair as leverage over him, the best way to break the leverage is to just come out and spill the tea yourself (so to speak)
peeters 38 minutes ago | parent
- Is this person susceptible to blackmail from the secrets they're keeping?
- Has this person performed a notable breach of trust?
- Has this person displayed a notable lack of judgement?
Even when the alleged misconduct is private, #1 is of particular concern. Airing it out is an obvious way to lessen that specific concern. The allegations here raise the other concerns too, however.
Keyframe 35 minutes ago | parent
Bedding an adversarial entity's agent in a regulated field is a serious matter (for the company) with potentially serious consequences. It can lead to executive decapitation, it can even lead to / criminal investigations if the operative bypassed export controls using executive proximity.. the fallout can be great and widespread.
It can also be a nothingburger and an amusing page six divorce story in the end where we all read how rich cry as well. Time will tell. What's telling of where this might lead and how serious it is, is that it was US federal government that warned about this.
vigilantpuma 33 minutes ago | parent
hoppp 33 minutes ago | parent
However if he cheated with a chinese spy then he was targeted by China and that raises this to a national security risk.
bluegatty 33 minutes ago | parent
Brybry 4 minutes ago | parent
> “Our relationship, our interactions, have been related to Megaspeed, and it was all completely normal and not unusual,” [1]
[1] https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2026-10-29/nvidia-ce... => https://archive.li/ljGPF#selection-1731.0-1731.119
hackernud3s 30 minutes ago | parent
Not long I suspect, we don't expect much from tech CEOs. Nobody even remembers when Bezos cheated on his wife.
ahartmetz 16 minutes ago | parent
Everyone has some preferred types, but same body, different person is pretty creepy.
pimeys 15 minutes ago | parent
elorant 27 minutes ago | parent
ChrisMarshallNY 19 minutes ago | parent
I never got to (or wanted to) see the images, but, by all reports, he ... er ... had nothing to be ashamed of.
bradlys 24 minutes ago | parent
Jensen is as powerful as any politician, if not more so. Same with Elon, etc.
If you don't want that then get rid of the ability for such individuals to amass so much power.
anuptalwalkar 42 minutes ago | parent
cladopa 35 minutes ago | parent
It is their job. You take decisions that are worth billions, you influence people that take decisions that are worth billions, and affect their countries.
They are going to study you for years. Your personality type and that of the people around you. Your weaknesses. Your problems and that of your family.
They will employ the most sweet and the most pleasurable and gorgeous honey that there is in the world to create the perfect Honey trap.
Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.
It is not just a woman wanting to have sex with you. It will be the woman in your dreams.
fantasizr 33 minutes ago | parent
giancarlostoro 31 minutes ago | parent
But another reason why as someone of such a high caliber you should never be alone with other women. Always have a bodyguard or something, surely you can afford someone…
lukan 27 minutes ago | parent
I mean, each to his own, but there are times when I would not want a bodyguard involved.
andsoitis 18 minutes ago | parent
That would preclude having a meeting with a female unless there's a bodyguard but not need one when you're meeting with a guy?
That would be quite weird.
Just keep your dick in your pants.
ChrisMarshallNY 10 minutes ago | parent
rubyfan 3 minutes ago | parent
slashnode 28 minutes ago | parent
neya 8 minutes ago | parent
fuzzythrowaway2 4 minutes ago | parent
I say this as someone who's family was torn apart by an affair, by a failure to update expectations. Well, that was the excuse; the issues were deeper, the affair was a focus-sink and an excuse not to address them. I wonder if that's the case here, too.
(I should make clear that I think Jensen Huang sucks for other reasons.)
method_capital 28 minutes ago | parent
bonoboTP 23 minutes ago | parent
corndoge 13 minutes ago | parent
tauwauwau 23 minutes ago | parent
yread 22 minutes ago | parent
afavour 20 minutes ago | parent
> Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.
She’s a woman, not a sweet from Willy Wonka’s factory. If you find yourself thinking “wow, she couldn’t be more perfect, it’s like she’s too good to be true” then perhaps as the CEO of a billion dollar company with national security concerns you should consider hey, maybe she is too good to be true? Maybe look into that?
All else aside, if you find yourself being tempted, you make sure she isn’t around you. The CEO compensation more than makes up for your sacrifice.
ip26 7 minutes ago | parent
Obviously the target has agency, I don't deny that, but it seems blindingly shortsighted to think it's as simple as "be suspicious of supermodels who are into you".
stephc_int13 19 minutes ago | parent
ip26 13 minutes ago | parent
Perhaps as far as to say, the only suspicious thing about the perfect agent would be the lack of anything to be suspicious of.
rtpg 6 minutes ago | parent
testbjjl 18 minutes ago | parent
corndoge 17 minutes ago | parent
we will never know
mosura 14 minutes ago | parent
The people in here acting like they would be immune to all this are kidding themselves.
xboxnolifes 12 minutes ago | parent
OtherShrezzing 10 minutes ago | parent
I think most normal people have tried Doritos at some point, which are the flavour-equivalent of what you’re describing here. It’s food designed to satisfy your human needs and desires.
jcranmer 10 minutes ago | parent
But if you're married, with kids, and you're willing to throw that away to chase someone else, I'd argue you have a serious personality flaw going on there.
ksec 3 minutes ago | parent
There is no chase here. It is the other way round.
jcranmer 56 seconds ago | parent
Jensen wasn't an innocent victim, he was still an active, voluntary participant.
Teever 9 minutes ago | parent
That meant that the only way to attack these people was a soft attack in the form of social interactions or social media and as such it's always struck me as extremely foolish for these kinds of people to let themselves be preyed upon in this manner.
Like they have teams of people who keep them physically safe, but not mentally safe, so in the age of social media a motivated attacker can, with enough cleverness[0][1] directly reach the mind of someone who otherwise couldn't be reached.
Why does that happen?
I think it's not so much because they're juicy targets that entities with unlimited resources can meticulously target like you describe but because people like Jensen Huang or Bill Gates are very technically competent they probably lack the social skills so they're too often the Michael Scott to the Todd Packer in situations like this[2] and when a hint of opportunity to be sexually promiscuous is presented to them they seize on it without thinking of the consequences.
Think of the married blue collar dudes who pick up bored divorcees at some dive sports bar after watching the big game and then drive home drunk, juggling multiple mistresses and a family life with relative ease for years.
A manager like Jensen Huang may be able to handle multiple business units but he can't manage a single mistress handling his unit because that just isn't his skill set.
[0] https://gwern.net/doc/www/web.archive.org/5e00c6993450adc597...
[1] https://www.npr.org/2010/06/08/127564512/for-the-love-of-goo...
bamboozled 1 minute ago | parent
kelseyfrog 1 minute ago | parent
So just hire women? Sounds like an incredibly simple solution to being security compromised.
wewewedxfgdf 34 minutes ago | parent
However if you lack the common sense to not fall for Chinese spies then your judgement really must be questioned.
hackernud3s 22 minutes ago | parent
net01 33 minutes ago | parent
zulux 23 minutes ago | parent
They tried every persona: Sexy, shy, homely. Same sex. Confrontational. Open, but scared her overseers would punish her. Still get a ping now and then.
dietr1ch 31 minutes ago | parent
ChrisArchitect 28 minutes ago | parent
Statement from NVIDIA Board of Directors
ilaksh 23 minutes ago | parent
This is just a total guess, but I assume what a lot of the board want is for him to sell as much to China or indirect channels as he can get away with. So whatever these deals were that involved this woman, they probably want him to get those deals through it he can get away with it (although they wouldn't admit it).
I see this more or less as Huang doing his job. And relative to international expectations at that level of wealth, one public affair is probably not something most of the board (presumably largely male) is going to (privately) judge him for.
So if the board is investigating, I assume what they are trying to figure out is if the US government is going to do anything (probably not) or waiting to see if there is going to be some kind of public demand for him to be removed. Or it there is something likely to come out that will cause either of those things.
avazhi 17 minutes ago | parent
Neither the board nor the US government nor investors nor the average person gives a shit about a CEO having an affair as long it doesn't compromise his ability to do his job well.
seanmcdirmid 12 minutes ago | parent
dannyw 10 minutes ago | parent
IMHO, I’m speculating, but I think the affair could’ve happened first, and then the MSS got involved for access and blackmail.
There is, after all, statistically a high correlation with rich billionaires and infidelity…
dzonga 20 minutes ago | parent
the reason bond was made - was the guy who the novel was based on - being a double-agent couldn't be honey-trapped as he was already womanizing.
shrubble 14 minutes ago | parent
losthubble 8 minutes ago | parent
shock-value 14 minutes ago | parent
yunnpp 9 minutes ago | parent
Props up the surveillance state with Palantir, requests privacy.
jgalt212 4 minutes ago | parent