214 points robtherobber 1 hour ago 143 comments
NewJazz 1 hour ago | parent
fallinghawks 32 minutes ago | parent
jmclnx 1 hour ago | parent
That is the main issue. I am on mastodon but following someone on another instance of mastodon is not easy for "regular people". Until that is solved people will stick to items like twitter and meta.
AFAIK, most people on Bluesky are on the "main" instance, so that tends to end up being a centralized community which can suffer from the same issues.
metabagel 1 hour ago | parent
For me, I found it too difficult to locate "my peeps" on other instances, so I switched to Bluesky.
JoeOfTexas 1 hour ago | parent
metabagel 1 hour ago | parent
hackyhacky 53 minutes ago | parent
dockd 49 minutes ago | parent
metabagel 47 minutes ago | parent
I dropped Facebook when I realized that their app was snooping on who I called and who called me.
skeeter2020 42 minutes ago | parent
How does that work? People post on FB or IG, AND THEN phone you / write a letter? doubtful...
metabagel 34 minutes ago | parent
In the case of major events, my brother usually lets me know, for example the death of an aunt. Everyone close to me knows I don't use FB, so if they want me to be aware of something in particular, they can text or call me.
balarjin 47 minutes ago | parent
I don't like (most of) the content on those sites. This is not surprising. The content is aimed at people who can't use Signal. Such a person is different from me in many ways.
metabagel 29 minutes ago | parent
Twitter boosts Elon Musk and the things he is interested in.
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2023/feb/15/elon-musk...
I don't have specific complaints about Instagram or TikTok, other than the algorithm is controlled by oligarchs.
profdevloper 9 minutes ago | parent
option 1 hour ago | parent
even OAI and Ant are better options
sublinear 1 hour ago | parent
Kind of hurts/helps the point, but yeah generally, you should run your own website? Is this the return of the old web?
metabagel 52 minutes ago | parent
10111001 1 hour ago | parent
The problem with that is people are "lazy": they're typically not going to expend extra effort that's not needed to solve the problem in front of them. It's pervasive, and it's one of the big reasons "friction" reducing technology can be really problematic: it turns necessary behaviors into issues of self-discipline (e.g. exercise becomes forcing yourself to haul yourself to the gym regularly in your spare time, instead just walking everywhere because you have to in order to go about your day).
So, IMHO, if you want people to use "open, decentralized, and user controlled" tools in 2026, you have to ban the centralized alternatives. Otherwise you're yelling at clouds, as most people will default to the lowest friction alternative they have access to.
metabagel 55 minutes ago | parent
james_marks 44 minutes ago | parent
If you want people to adopt your thing, it's got to make their life easier, right now, full stop.
ninalanyon 44 minutes ago | parent
I used to use a multiprotocol client, Pidgin, to chat with people on a couple of different platforms. But of course now a lot of chat is on things like Facebook and Google Chat which are supported only by plugins. But even that is still not enough because I will have to have an account on each of the platforms.
Chat really needs to be like email or SMS; you ought not to need an account with the provider of the person you are sending messages to.
mooreds 33 minutes ago | parent
But seriously, there's zero incentive for the folks building these clients to make them interoperable. In fact there may even be disincentive, since the more folks they have on their platform, the more valuable the platform is.
betterunix2 23 minutes ago | parent
Think about how long it took to get email spam under control (and even so it remains a problem). Think about the ongoing problems with spam phone calls. Now pretend you are someone with no technical background, someone who only sees the UI and does not really understand what happens behind it -- you are not seeing spam on closed systems, you are seeing spam on open systems, what are you going to choose? Also keep in mind that there are worse forms of abuse than spam.
MisterTea 34 minutes ago | parent
balarjin 52 minutes ago | parent
1. Too stupid to make a plan that could possibly work
2. Too lazy to execute on a plan that could possibly work
Knowing this is a useful signal. It tells me their judgment is terrible, and I should not listen to them ;)
whoiskevin 48 minutes ago | parent
Amazing.
estearum 46 minutes ago | parent
TFA (and you) are just discounting the power of network effects. Tells me that your judgment is poor and I should not listen to you ;)
verdverm 35 minutes ago | parent
Instead, go to where people all are, real life in the real world. I go out and talk to people all the time. I listen to them before telling them. I'm more interested in getting people talking than I am in changing their minds (right now) and providing them with ideas they are unlikely to hear online. I see my "sapphire gals" (retired nokingers) becoming less extreme, not repeating the shallow talking points. I hear them asking new questions.
Talking and working with others in person is 100x better.
estearum 29 minutes ago | parent
skeeter2020 45 minutes ago | parent
10111001 42 minutes ago | parent
> 1. Too stupid to make a plan that could possibly work
> 2. Too lazy to execute on a plan that could possibly work
Your comment is a pretty good example of what not to do: society/technology makes good choices harder, so flog individuals about their lack of self-discipline when they don't do yet-another hard thing. People only have so much time and self-discipline, have some empathy.
The only thing the flogging does is give the flogger the chance to feel unjustifiably superior.
> Knowing this is a useful signal. It tells me their judgment is terrible, and I should not listen to them ;)
What you're doing is a generalized method to dismiss anything and anyone:
1. Find a thing.
2. Search for some aspect that isn't perfect. Viciously criticize that aspect.
3. Dismiss the whole thing on account of that aspect.
The only thing that using Instagram tells me about these activists is that they weren't setting out to solve some ideological communication technology problem. They had other priorities.
metabagel 41 minutes ago | parent
AcerbicZero 40 minutes ago | parent
snickerbockers 32 minutes ago | parent
betterunix2 9 minutes ago | parent
The only reason activists would switch to something else is if Facebook gives them a reason to do so. I doubt this one incident is enough of a reason.
2OEH8eoCRo0 51 minutes ago | parent
Right now they have it both ways. They have the users, money, and data and they speak through their moderation decisions while being legally immune from consequences.
verdverm 43 minutes ago | parent
I'm not exactly sure what the answer is, but we can place two constraints
1. Anyone can say anything online, free speech for individuals
2. Algorithms that act as "editors" are not free speech and should be regulated.
Perhaps the answer is to say that social media algorithms can only be chronological and M0% from your direct network.
Reposts and quotes seem to be one of the core features that enable virality and dog piling. We need to "slow the spread" - to borrow a phase from one of our least favorite times.
Another thing we need is a privacy preserving method for proving humanism online.
2OEH8eoCRo0 31 minutes ago | parent
Maybe the algos outside of what you mention should not get 230 immunity?
richwater 30 minutes ago | parent
You do realize that will accomplish the exact opposite of what you're trying to achieve right?
toss1 30 minutes ago | parent
Section 230 was a Trojan Horse.
If they want to be treated like an innocent carrier (i.e., telco), they must kill their algorithms.
No news media company writes or says the reports of the journalists they publish or broadcast, but they are nevertheless responsible for that content.
If social media wants to control the algorithmic feed for profit, they must be like any media, "fully responsible for their content", and must be held accountable for it.
betterunix2 39 minutes ago | parent
There are also legal issues that kill decentralized/user-controlled systems. Copyright and child abuse are the most prominent, along with terrorism and drug trafficking. Who gets sued or prosecuted when the system is open, decentralized, and user-controlled? The users, and that's why peer-to-peer filesharing died, why so few people are willing to host a Tor exit node, etc. Before talking about banning centralized systems we need to talk about updating the legal system so that it does not force centralization, which is a much bigger project and much harder to get right.
thesuitonym 29 minutes ago | parent
> that's why peer-to-peer filesharing died
p2p file sharing is still huge, though. Most people just put their seedboxes behind a VPN to avoid getting DMCA notices.
010ED67913 1 hour ago | parent
all the bullshitting about complaining about centralization, third party this and that, freedom of speech, can't take that shit seriously. somehow they uniquely find only violations of these from people in the "other" side of the aisle. it's just so exhausting and obviously bad faith engagement. and the right isn't really any better, they do the same thing, just flipped. i think it's about time we mostly just admit: libertarians are fools (that used to be me LOL), and nobody in western culture genuinely cares about "free speech". everything they support is free speech, everything they dislike is "hate speech" (notice how the narrative changed). it's all so obvious to anyone who zooms out and looks at the larger trends. just get over it and embrace authoritarianism. just be honest about who you are.
slibhb 1 hour ago | parent
010ED67913 38 minutes ago | parent
if the No Kings people truly want to be taken seriously, the best thing they can do is just admit they are wrong about their whole schtick. unfortunately the chances of that happening are exactly zero % since pride stands in the way.
watch and observe. literally nobody believes in free speech. people believe in policies and agendas, and "freedom" is just a tool used to push it. the right wing does this, especially in economics, all the time, where they want the rich to be "free" to fuck the poor. take a step back, observe the trends, and be honest with yourself, and it will be quite obvious that freedom itself is just a tool used in politics, nobody actually believes in it as an end to aspire to. this isn't 1980 anymore. milton friedman is long gone.
slibhb 28 minutes ago | parent
delichon 57 minutes ago | parent
fullshark 57 minutes ago | parent
verdverm 27 minutes ago | parent
jimmydddd 21 minutes ago | parent
notyourwork 17 minutes ago | parent
r3trohack3r 17 minutes ago | parent
jareklupinski 14 minutes ago | parent
why tho? it's No King_s_
you can have one
jl6 15 minutes ago | parent
verdverm 13 minutes ago | parent
Trump acts like a king, even if he was elected. He gets tributes and requires deference, clearly visible from the foreign and corporate donations, and behavior of the Republican Party. Or take the "super intelligence" thing, him dictating what a technology shall be called, lest you become an ENEMY OF AMERICA. Or the repeated attempts to silence the media. Trump has tried to violate most of the Bill of Rights. There are reasons people see every day for why NoKings sticks and resonates.
I do agree NoKings (and broadly the far left) have really bad messaging, a product of echo chambers (imo). I suspect the Democrats will learn the wrong lessons from the midterms... sigh.
dylan604 10 minutes ago | parent
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/jan/29/the-slopagan...
goatlover 8 minutes ago | parent
verdverm 7 minutes ago | parent
tempfile 4 minutes ago | parent
The point of the protest is to prevent him from making himself a king.
> And couldn't even change the name of the art center, so not that powerful.
This is really weak cherry picking. He has successfully removed medical care from millions of Americans, started foreign wars of aggression, destabilised several countries, probably tanked US international reputation for a generation... he is incredibly powerful.
deepfriedchokes 3 minutes ago | parent
Aurornis 23 minutes ago | parent
salah7252 2 minutes ago | parent
jesuswasjew 57 minutes ago | parent
darkstar999 48 minutes ago | parent
krapp 46 minutes ago | parent
nness 41 minutes ago | parent
estearum 39 minutes ago | parent
There’s a reason autocrats hate protests. It’s because they’d much rather that opposition become doubtful of whether other opposition exist out there.
010ED67913 30 minutes ago | parent
the grift works though, in part because the changes they protest for usually take a toll on the system over time, until the system soft or hard collapses. then you get social unrest. that's exactly you're seeing in france now. i dont even feel bad for france.
estearum 25 minutes ago | parent
But characterizing opposition to Trump as “just leftists perma-complaining,” is incorrect. He’s the least popular POTUS in American history.
This administration has been repeatedly found in court to be violating the law and the US Constitution. It is not a partisan expectation or leftist complaint that the government must follow the law.
skeeter2020 39 minutes ago | parent
noobrtoobr 53 minutes ago | parent
None of the faceless legal corporate entities should be trusted; many explicitly argued against common carrier to preserve power over discourse that benefits them
Got suspended on Bsky for pointing out they too rely on data centers; free speech is not possible online.
Not even talking about toxic political speech, just physical fucking truth that might impact the bottom line for a small team of tech bros.
There will be no doubting the genius of the SV PhD crowd never mind they too, a minority of the global population, are temporary and deluded self selecting meat suits with no ability to ensure the future cares about their effort; it's all so clearly just selfish laziness
Am raising my kids to be prepared to denigrate and marginalize Millennials as Millennials hit their glazed over elder phase so my kids generation can be free of the same thought policing and social conservatism
slibhb 50 minutes ago | parent
But yes, a solution is for people to host their own content/sites. Or "protocols not platforms"
pixl97 42 minutes ago | parent
In a perfect world yes. In the reality we live in no.
Why is this the case?
1. Any site that is politically active and capable of upsetting people WILL BE ATTACKED. Can you afford a terabyte of data a second coming your way? Probably not. So you put it behind CF, but now you're vulnerable to their policies closing you down.
2. Any site that is politically active and capable of upsetting people WILL BE ATTACKED. What are you going to do against floods of child porn or death threats posted by users pretending to be on your side, but actually working for the opposition?
3. Any site that is politically active and capable of upsetting people WILL BE ATTACKED. You are now in charge of your website security. Are you any good at it? How are you going to pay for it to be secured? How do you trust the people doing the security?
4. Any site that is politically active and capable of upsetting people WILL BE ATTACKED. How do you plan on getting people to come to your site? If it's upsetting enough to the powers that be any messages containing links to your site will disappear from Meta/X/Google. You are going to have to find neat an interesting, and probably expensive ways to get your message out.
We have consolidated the internet down to a point where it is very very easy for a few small groups to control the general discussion, especially across large diverse groups of people.
slibhb 30 minutes ago | parent
ChrisArchitect 49 minutes ago | parent
Meta Takes Down No Kings Instagram During Protest Day
martythemaniak 49 minutes ago | parent
- TikTok is controlled by Larry Ellison
- CBS news is controlled by Ellison's son
- The Ellisons will soon own CNN as well
- Twitter is controlled by Musk
- Facebook, Instagram and Threads are under Zuck
- WaPo and Amazon Prime by Bezos
- Old time favourites like Fox and WSJ owned by Murdoch
The owners of this media are also very explicitly involved in pro-Trump editorial content. In short, the playing field is wildly lopsided and unreliable and no tech (decentralized social media, lol) solution will work. Ultimately people will have to elect politicians to explicitly break up and clamp down on this hive of scum and villainy, but people aren't there yet, mentally. Such a solution seems wildly inappropriate today, but my guess is that another 10 years of the last two years will change a lot of minds.
skeeter2020 39 minutes ago | parent
vlyan 46 minutes ago | parent
estearum 42 minutes ago | parent
lmz 37 minutes ago | parent
AshleyGrant 31 minutes ago | parent
Deplatforming people organizing a peaceful protest is very different. If you cannot understand how that is different, then I worry about your critical thinking skills.
estearum 30 minutes ago | parent
intended 2 minutes ago | parent
Most people haven’t spent any time moderating online communities, so they don’t have to test their beliefs against reality. This is fine, frankly you saved yourself being stuck in a fractal hell scape.
However holding to this idea that the “opposition” was deplatformed, is superstition.
I’ve seen communities start with 0 moderation, and become wastelands filled with hate speech, misogyny and harassment. Which then forces moderation to be introduced.
This happens so often, that this happened to the hate groups who were kicked off of Reddit.
Communities have celebrated the introduction of moderation, and celebrated the imposition of rules that mean you can’t be harassed, attacked and targeted.
pokstad 30 minutes ago | parent
estearum 25 minutes ago | parent
yulker 20 minutes ago | parent
NotPractical 32 minutes ago | parent
Waterluvian 23 minutes ago | parent
What I'm seeing is an argument for, "I don't like Facebook's speech. I think you shouldn't like it either. So I think we should all walk away."
jvanderbot 19 minutes ago | parent
Suppression of misinformation during one era is suppression of protests in another era.
You're right that the reality of the current day is what TFA is about - but GP is mentioning that we built this reality.
howunfortunate 17 minutes ago | parent
98% of the time people are talking about the former, and the only ones confused are the people assuming they're talking about the latter and linking the face-palm-worthy "showing them the door" XKCD.
alex1138 20 minutes ago | parent
(I dislike Musk for many reasons but you cannot tell me there were 'no problems' with old Twitter or that every criticism was a 'nothingburger')
jimmydddd 14 minutes ago | parent
nozzlegear 2 minutes ago | parent
GolfPopper 1 minute ago | parent
pfdietz 38 minutes ago | parent
snickerbockers 36 minutes ago | parent
The bit about "the worst people's accounts" just sounds like a refutation of everything else in the article. The problem was always that it was up to interpretation who "the worst people" are.
IDK why so many people want to die on this hill of not forcing social media companies to extend free-speech rights to their userbase. Facebook didn't accidentally wind up in this position where their TOS can effectively censor entire political movements on the Zuck's whim. They spent decades purposefully angling for this by acquiring competitors and encouraging people to use their platform for any and all communication. They own the audience.
>But there is a better solution: build tools that are open, decentralized, and user controlled. And then actually use them instead of just giving more power to Mark Zuckerberg to shut down a protest organization’s account in the middle of one of its big protests.
Not happening LOL. The decentralized platforms have been there for 10-20 years, hardly anybody uses them.
Back when the shoe was on the other foot, the right tried to make *several* alternative platforms and there was widespread collusion amongst all levels of infrastructure providers to push them off the internet. The same will happen to any platform which seeks to effect political change and attains enough critical mass that it could plausibly do so.
miohtama 36 minutes ago | parent
We got Internet moderation.
Watch out what you wish for.
verdverm 30 minutes ago | parent
It's the Right wing politicians too. Look at Texas and pornography laws or the IRL book bans. We live in a politics of Win At All Costs, Dominate Those Who Think Differently, i.e utterly broken and anti-democratic.
The problem is the Oligarchy, the are thick from money, power, and hubris
krapp 29 minutes ago | parent
It was the right who wanted to repeal Section 230 and have the government take over all social media platforms and regulate them, and make it illegal to ban their speech. The left never wanted anything of the sort.
tashian 32 minutes ago | parent
What Facebook has is an opaque process run by AI with no way for most people to appeal.
zer0zzz 32 minutes ago | parent
xhkkffbf 30 minutes ago | parent
varispeed 14 minutes ago | parent
Typical ways of overcoming censorship is creating own lingo, so that it goes past censors or distribution of physical leaflets, underground press and organising resistance offline.
laweijfmvo 12 minutes ago | parent
> Or, it could just be that Meta’s automated systems suck.
“Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity”. I don't think people acknowledge how often shit like this happens.micromacrofoot 12 minutes ago | parent
bhouston 9 minutes ago | parent
https://www.instagram.com/Aboujahjah/
They are also removed the account of slain Palestinian journalists, this time including Pulitzer winning Al Jazeera's Anas Al-Sharif - although it seems it is back now: https://www.youtube.com/post/Ugkx0kN5mUZDFsw7OgRiY3ElLx9DgjM...
It seems that there are repeated waves of account deletions affecting those not in power and only if you raise a huge stink is it undone but only on a per-account basis. And each of these waves slowly erodes those voices. It sort of feels like a strategy.
Aunche 6 minutes ago | parent
karim79 5 minutes ago | parent